Parent perspectives first installment: a good start for life and learning

I was very interested in the perspectives of parents at each of the venues I visited. While in the UK I was often able to meet parents and was even able to ask some to a formal interview. The short duration at each centre in Denmark and the language differences made this a difficulty in Denmark, which was a shame. 

Whenever I got the opportunity I would ask parents why they had chosen this centre for their child's prior to school experience, what were their aspirations for their child and how they expected that this type of learning environment would foster this. I was also interested in their perspectives on schooling and how their children would go as they entered formal education. 

Their insights seemed to fall into four main categories: 

1. Giving their child a good start for life and learning

2. The way of teaching

3. Connecting to nature

4. Concerns regarding the school system

I'll be adding to this over the next few days, but let's start on how parents saw this type of early education as a good start for their child's life and learning. 

1. A GOOD START FOR LIFE AND LEARNING

This was by far the main source of insight that parents communicated to me. They spoke with passion about the types of dispositions they saw nurtured in their children through the learning environments and the style of teaching. 

Many comments referred to children being able to be themselves, to remain as children without the pressures of responsibility bearing down on them too early. Comments such as "What I want for him right now is just to be and he can just be here. I want him to just be a child and not rush into all the responsibility that you have when you start school" clearly indicates this parents desire for her child to enjoy that special time of being four. Another parent followed a similar statement with this "They are lucky to have no responsibilities.  It's such a gift to be able to be spontaneous and free and come up with wild ideas and then just do them" 

Children's confidence was found to be an important factor. Children who may have entered the nursery as shy, withdrawn or unsure were described as developing greatly in confidence and becoming more assured and assertive. The learning environment was seen to promote confidence, as shown in the following; "My child's confidence is ten fold. He's using language much more, his attention span has improved. He's building strong relationships with the staff and other kids. This environment allows him that and he's stronger and more confident for it. This will make him capable for the future". 

Opportunities for decision making were also commented on with great positivity. "He's able to choose and control his own play and experiences. He can come here and get dirty and make it what he wants to make it that day". Parents valued the autonomy that their children were given, seeing it as developing life skills. "They're independence is encouraged and they are given choices. When they are cooking the children are encouraged to say what they think, they're involved. Their opinions are valued. Little by little they've encouraged him to work out what he wants himself whereas before he'd need an adult to tell him". One parent commented on the way children are consulted at every point in the day. "It's not just about being free and just doing what you want, it's about knowing why and how it's going to effect everyone else. Helping them to shape their decision making process instead of a command" 

The natural outdoor environment provides much opportunity for children to be imaginative, curious and exploratory. For parents this was an important aspect. "If he's got a stick it might be a sword, it might be a magic wand, it could be a motor bike or a witches broom. That stick is such a rich object while he's here because he's constantly imagining. He's not being given a toy or an object and being told well this is how you play with it." Parents saw the value in children being imaginative and as an educator I know that it is vital for children to develop these skills as a means of understanding symbolism, as a precursor to formal literacy learning. 

I'll be writing about the other aspects from parent interviews over the next few days. This is enough for me for one sitting, and I imagine it's enough for you too. I'll leave you with this question. If you're an educator, do you know what your parents know about the sorts of dispositions that foster learning? What do you do to make parents aware of this?